That is about my guitar trainer who’s 34yrs outdated and I’m 39. We have recognized one another for 10 months now however the classes are carried out each 2-3 weeks, so we have now met solely 15 instances. At first this man was very communicative and pleasant with me, he made me really feel snug throughout the classes and confirmed nice curiosity as a trainer. However after few classes he turned nervous and edgy, continually bouncing his leg up and down, avoiding eye contact, blushing and saying issues like “is it too sizzling in right here or it is simply my thought?”. He would misunderstand my questions considering that I used to be accusing him for his incapacity to show and he was additionally clumsy. For instance he would take my hand and scratch it over the fretboard when exhibiting me hand positions or taking part in methods.
At some point I talked to him and requested if I used to be such a foul pupil that I used to be getting on his nerves (or one thing like that). He answered negatively and from then on we talk a lot better, he’s calm and pleasant in the direction of me, we have now regular eye contact and he’s very cautious when touching my hand to position it on the guitar. Just lately we had each opened up a few widespread drawback that we have now in our lives and I noticed what an amazing character he has. From then on he usually teases me by mimicking my voice, he all the time welcomes me with a smile and his all habits exhibits me that he cares about me. For instance, he solutions to all my texts, he provides me recommendation to private issues, he’ll say to me issues like “let me enable you to”, “would you like me to carry your hand so you will not fall?”, “Right here, let me see on Google map which is the higher solution to go the place you need. Take care and be secure!”. He has talked about thrice that he’s single or that he had a couple of girlfirends throughout the previous years who harm him.
I wish to inform him that I like him, however I’m not positive he likes me too, as a result of a mutual good friend instructed me that he’s identical to that to everybody.
Do you suppose he may like me or he’s simply being good with me? How ought to I strategy him?
